Choosing an Alzheimer’s care home

Hello friends and family, 

    Today is the update I knew I would have to make some day and hoped I wouldn’t have to make some day. 

     Dave’s disease progression has become more obvious the past few weeks.  Daily tasks like getting dressed and undressed are confusing to him. He’s started trying to sneak out of the house again. And he’s having trouble getting words to come out correctly. There’s a lot more, but those are the more obvious changes. 

     My niece called around and found an Azheimer’s facility that does “day stays” and encouraged me to check it out…Many have been telling me that it’s time or past time to seek out professional care for Dave. 

    After the first tour, I described to a friend, that for me, it was as if all of the emotions of the last 3+ years came bubbling up at the same time, mixed with relief and guilt. 

     Long story shorter… I have talked with the boys, and they agree on the plan to move forward with “day stay” care at Country House at 84th and Pine Lake in Lincoln, 3 times a week,  as early as next week, and transition into full time care by end of May. The things I think Dave will like about the home are the daily bus rides, to places like Village Inn for pie, Baker’s chocolates and other fun outings. 

     We may ask for some help in moving furniture as that day approaches, probably more for moral support, as this will be be a very difficult transition for Adam, Luke and Davey, especially.  All I need to buy is a twin bed and will send the end table he’s used to, the chair from the living room, and his favorite afghan and pillows. 

Thank you for your continued love, support, and prayers. At both facilities that I toured, the people who gave me the information and tours, were amazed at the incredible support community we have around us. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all. 

Love, 
Anne